Therefore I have experienced this closest friend for 8 years

Therefore I have experienced this closest friend for 8 years

First he liked me personally at first and I also didnt like him.

After a couple of years we started initially to like him as well as we talked but never dated. From then on the two of us dated others. Then in 7 of the friendship, we were both single again and we made out year. Although we remained simply buddies he told me he had been keeping away from relationships for a time, he’s been harmed prior to. We didn’t see one another for a time so when we did see one another, i consequently found out he had dated two girls. Just What have we gotten myself into?

Personally I think that he isn’t ready for a relationship blah blah hes been clear that he does want a relationship and he ‘is in it for the long haul’ etc but he just broke up with his girldfriend so says it needs to be a secret for the first little while but will get better with time like I have fallen into the friends with benefit trap but rather than him telling me. For the time being it had been simply at a spot where as soon as a when he was free he would message me and i would go round to his and we would chat and watch a film and then have sex week. We told him this didn’t look like a relationship and never actually what I was hunting for but he insisted that it was just for now and it also would improve in a little while when it didnt have to be key. We’ve been buddies for quite some time before this and I also have actually liked him for some time nonetheless it wasn’t what I wanted and I also broke it well the good news is we stress that i shall be sorry for this because imagine if he now never ever wishes such a thing once again and I also ended up being simply impatient? Must I have trusted exactly what he stated over the method he had been hairy privates acting? Continue reading